Total Body (Image) Makeover: The Key to Lasting Self-Confidence in Dating and Beyond

by Jen

As promised, here's a slightly shorter recorded version of the presentation I did for the Dating Conference at BYU. -Jen

Part 1

Part 2

Part 3

For a more detailed written version of this talk, click here. To see the other Dating Conference presentations, visit BYU Women's Services & Resources past conferences.

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Melissa December 5, 2009 at 7:26 pm

LOVED this Jen! What a great reminder for EVERY woman.

How did I not know that one of your many talents is public speaking? You did awesome!


Tiffany December 6, 2009 at 2:06 am

This is an amazing talk to every teen girl to listen to just with the wonderful advise you give. Is there a written up copy somewhere though because my internet won't let me upload it all and i want to read the rest of it.


Hanna December 6, 2009 at 6:12 am

yep! this is totally the right answer. thanks again Jen. haha the part of the blind date cracked me up. it was also a way nice story. amazing job. Thanks!


Calli O. December 6, 2009 at 2:35 pm

Wow, this was such a good presentation. Great advise and great examples. Body bashing starts younger and younger these days. This presentation needs to be shown to all women, young and old!


Caitlynn December 6, 2009 at 8:04 pm

I absolutly love it Jen!! I'm 14 years old and found this website quite some time ago and I really love it and look up to you thank you sooo much for all the time you put into this website what an amzing speaker you are. 🙂 Would you mind posting a written copy??


Jen December 7, 2009 at 2:09 pm

Thanks so much for the great feedback!

I added a link to a PDF of the talk for the people who mentioned needing a written copy.


K'Lyn March 2, 2010 at 8:50 pm

Jen this is amazing. I love that you calmly teach the truth and know that you are not the one doing the convincing, I can tell you do know who touches hearts. Thank you for sharing your understanding with all of us. I am a mother of 3 so far and I have worried so much about how to help my kids. It already has helped me see myself even better – more the way I should – and I hope they will be able to learn from that too. Thank You, Thank You! Keep it up.


Beatriz November 4, 2011 at 4:43 am

Dear Jen:
                   This is a great presentation. I´ll share it with the Young Women of my ward. Thanks a lot!


Teresa November 4, 2011 at 8:30 am

So wonderful Thank you for posting I am a New Young Womens President and This is so what I need to show them Thank You!!!  A fabulous presentation.  I appreciate all the hard work that went into this. 


Jackie November 25, 2011 at 8:35 pm

Great job! Your overall presentation is really well done!
You definitely have a way of putting into words the internal problems we all face. Your wonderful perspective has helped me as a woman. It has reminded me of who I am and what I need to focus more on as a daughter of God, which couldn't have come at a more perfect time.
Thank you so much for sharing this video. If you never know how many young woman you help, just know you've helped this one!
     Best of wishes for you as a mother and within your chosen endeavors.


Esm August 16, 2012 at 3:45 am

hi Jen! Beautiful videos!! V powerful!!!


Missy June 10, 2013 at 7:36 pm

Oh wow!  I'm not LDS but I have been blessed by what you do since stumbling across your site while trying to find modest clothes. THANK YOU and GREAT JOB!


Jeanett February 23, 2014 at 11:16 am

Great Job……Thank you:-) 


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